As your child begins!
The first weeks at Advance Preschool, Inc. will be an adjustment period for both you and your child. Some children adjust to a group setting without any difficulty while others will cry and cling to you. Some children will become unusually quiet and will not join in activities. Other children may become overstimulated and act out aggressively. Remember tears and tantrums usually end with in two minutes of the parent’s departure. Regardless of the situation, each child CAN adjust and become comfortable in a school like setting!
The following suggestions are things that you can do to ease the adjustment period:
- If possible, visit the center with your child prior to leaving him/her there for the first time.
- Small children are not always sure that mom or dad will be back to pick them up. Please explain to your child in advance what will happen when you drop him/her off and reassure him/her that you will be returning.
- Talk to your child positively about the center and the things she/he will be dong there.
- Place emphasis on what your child is going to do at the center rather than what your activities will be while you’re away.
- See that your child is involved in a specific activity or is in the hands of a teacher before leaving
- Avoid prolonged good-byes.
- Avoid returning immediately to check on your child after you have left the class.
- During the first weeks, you may be feeling some apprehension after having left your child. Feel free to phone the center during the day to find out how your child is doing.
- Do no hesitate to discuss adjustment issues with your child’s teacher or center director.
- Be supportive and encourage your child to experience time away from you.
The adjustment period varies for every child. This is a natural developmental process. As children mature, they begin to identify themselves as independent personalities. In separating from you, your child is learning:
- To develop individuality
- To develop an interest in the activities at the center
- To feel comfortable with others
- To develop communication skills
- To develop an interest in learning
- To develop conflict resolution skills
- To explore new experiences
- To develop friendships
- To develop social skills
It is important to point out that sooner or later, after the initial successful adjustment to the center, all children want to explore the limits of not going to school. When this occurs, it is helpful to use the above suggestions again. It is also normal to state negative feelings toward separation from the parent.
Please be aware these are all normal reactions during the transition period.
It is our goal to ensure your child has a successful experience with their first learning adventure, therefore we will do everything to develop a lasting relationship with your family. Remember, we are here for you! If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to speak with your child’s teacher or the center director.